My Misadventure | From Plank to Plank
by Elouise
Dear Friends,
This is NOT a goodbye post, despite the lovely blessing above. Do you know what a condyle fracture of the jaw is? Neither did I until last Thursday when I was on my way to get a haircut. It wasn’t my heart, dizziness or anything like that. I tripped over uneven pavement and landed smack on my chin.
I’m home from the hospital, have an appointment with an oral surgeon coming up, and am probably looking at a wired jaw and liquid diet for more weeks than I want to know.
I’ve gone back several times to read my last Emily Dickinson post, I stepped from Plank to Plank. I haven’t died or fallen into the ocean. Nonetheless, I’m in a brand new world, feeling my way along with “…that precarious Gait Some call Experience.”
One thing I know: I need and want to write and post as I’m able. I’ve felt numb since last Thursday morning. Trying to get my emotional, spiritual and mental balance. There’s no rush. One day I’ll be grateful for this additional Experience.
Right now I’m grateful for many things –
- The woman who came out to help me and called the ambulance
- Her neighbor across the street who also came out and rubbed my back gently
- The ambulance that came quickly and took me on my first ambulance ride as the injured party
- Unnumbered friends who’ve been praying and sending notes and encouragement my way
- An intact neck, a cut beneath my chin, and no other damage to my head, teeth or jaw; just wounded pride
- CAT scans, head x-rays and other ways of measuring damage done and not done
- The outstanding care I received from the moment the ambulance arrived, in the emergency room and in the hospital – the same hospital in which I had a pacemaker procedure just over two weeks earlier
- My Vita-Mix, bought a couple of years ago at the insistence of my children. Who knew I’d get to take a crash course in preparing liquid food?
- Friends who’ve offered to make some of my favorite soups, ready for transformation in the Vita-Mix
- Music, hymns and Psalms that played in my head and heart when I thought I couldn’t take it anymore
- Family members near and far who’ve been in touch
- My husband of more than 50 years whose life was also disrupted in order to do double duty on my behalf
- Sweet Smudge, our 3-year old cat, with his mostly calming, cheering presence
I’m sure there’s more, but that should give you the picture.
Before this misadventure, I’d been wondering what life with Lucy, my pacemaker, would look like. Never in a million years did I think about a wired jaw. If anything, my thoughts were more toward the unwired jaw scenario.
I believe God doesn’t waste anything that happens in my life, whether it’s good, bad or ugly. Nothing gets thrown out. Instead, it goes into piles of building blocks for whatever God is making of my life. As always, I’m grateful for your support. In fact, I can’t imagine my life just now without my blogging friends and visitors. Many thanks for stopping by and reading!
Elouise♥
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 24 April 2016
Irish blessing with photo from http://www.zazzle.com
New challenges in life and a Vita Mix is an amazing thing…I’ve a good recipe for chia pudding, not sure if the soaked seeds would blend in but its good for Omega 3 in the diet and tastes good…You poor thing and I am glad you are not leaving, I would have to do a strike till you returned….Hi Lucy, thanks for hanging in there with the boss, Peace and love and extra prayers for a quick healing….K
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Thanks, Kim. Yes, it is indeed amazing–in the middle of everything else that isn’t quite so amazing. I’ve never heard of chia pudding, but don’t know why they wouldn’t blend right in with everything else. What’s the magic formula? Thanks for cheering Lucy on–and for recognizing who’s the boss. 🙂
Elouise
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Chia pudding is yummy….doesn’t look so good but here’s the recipe
1 1/2 C. Almond milk
1/3 C. Chia seeds
1 Tsp sugar
And it calls for 1/4 Tsp of vanilla extract but I use 1/2 tsp almond extract. Mix it all up and let it sit overnight, I let it sit sometimes two nights as it gets thicker. I add granola (naturally sweetened) and a small handful of cocoa roasted almonds. Pretty healthy but I don’t know if the granola would vitamix up and I really doubt the nuts would….but high in Omega 3 and I like it.
Happy Monday my friend😊
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What a beautiful, simple recipe! I love it and will give it a try. As for the Vitamix, it hasn’t met anything it couldn’t subdue yet–including granola and a snack bar and all kinds of nuts. Definitely a slurpy wonder when it gets finished. Thanks for the recipe! I use Almond Milk all the time, so this is right up my alley. 🙂
Elouise
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Very good then, granola and nuts it is…I use cocoa almonds and naturally u sweetened granola😊yummy stuff😊
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Oh, Elouise! That just sucks! (sorry if that’s offensive language, but you just have to say it sometimes!) So glad you can be grateful in the midst of everything. Love and healing prayers for you, Natalie
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Doesn’t it though! I’m so glad you said it out loud. 🙂 Seriously, awful things call for awful language. Can’t say I remember the Psalms mincing words. Many thanks for your encouragement and prayers.
Elouise
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What a turn of events – especially as you were just getting used to Lucy! For many of us, a liquid diet would be the prelude to dropping a few pounds, but you don’t have any to give! Well, I hope (and pray) for good pain management, for a not-too-long recovery, and for some tasty meals, even if in liquid form!
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You’re so right about having no extra pounds to give away! I’m counting on non-stop eating to keep my weight up. I’ve been looking around online at strategies, and it seems that’s the only thing that’s going to work–so long as I throw a nice glob of peanut butter into everything. 🙂 I think Lucy was as surprised as I was to find herself back in the hospital. Thanks for your encouragement, Meg.
Elouise
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Oops! I have noticed a growing tendency for catching the toe of my boot on uneven surfaces so I will keep your chin in mind from now on and avoid the same fate. I even trip on shadows. Keep your chin up girl.
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Thanks, John. My chin is pleased to be of service, and sincerely hopes you never land upon yours, especially on pavement. ‘Tripping’ on shadows? Hmmm. Sounds like more is going on than meets the eye.
Keeping my chin up!
Elouise
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Oh Elouise! I am thinking of you and praying for a speedy recovery! xxx
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Thank you Raphaela! I’m so very appreciative.
Elouise 🙂
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Sending you my best!
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Thanks, Herminia. Tomorrow I see the oral surgeon to find out what comes next.
Elouise
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I hope it all goes well.
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So sorry for you. But at least Lucy stood up to the test. Has ‘she’ complained? keep us in the loop.
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Hi, Robin! Lucy has been a major player of the Positive Sort! Really. And with no complaining at all. In fact, she finally got to show me what she can do. Amazing. Hoping to have a report sometime tomorrow about what comes next.
Elouise
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What a bummer. I’ve been praying for you and D, and will keep on doing so. I’m told that when a cat falls, it always lands on its feet, a feat that is innate in its system.
I’ve fallen three times since I began the experience with my heart. The first time I tripped on an uneven sidewalk (in our front yard, and landed on the lawn), once entering my doctor’s office (he told me I’d better not be seen again in his office without a walker), and once entering the lobby of the local YMCA (with a cane). Each time, I managed to twist my body to land on my shoulder instead of my face. I wonder if I’m blessed with an innate capability, or whether I just learned from experience.
In any case, I now use a walker when I leave the house.
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Hi, Waldo. Thanks for sharing your various experiences with falling. I think you’re related to cats! Not that it’s funny, mind you. And congratulations for following the doctor’s orders. Not just when you’re in his office. 🙂
Elouise
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Wow, you have been through a lot, Elouise. I hope your jaw heals quickly.
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Thank you, April. I hope so, too. I’m so grateful for your comment. The ‘cure,’ such as it is, begins on Monday. D and I spent today in doctors’ offices and will do more prep-work tomorrow for Monday morning. I feel as though I just got a new fulltime job–without pay.
Elouise
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Thanks for this report on your misadventure. Glad you are doing well.
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Hi, Clay. It’s so good to hear from you. The next big step comes Monday morning when an oral surgeon will align my jaws as much as possible, and then wire them together for 10 days. No perfect solutions, but this looks like the best way to go.
Elouise
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