The Shape of Healing
by Elouise
Describing the unspeakable
Welcoming the unbearable
Embracing the unimaginable
These phrases came to mind this morning when I saw the Daily Prompt. They capture what recovery looks like for me, an adult survivor of childhood trauma within my family.
No erasing the past, no magic pills, no overnight miracles, no shortcuts and no looking back. Sometimes I think I’m finally ready to be born. Or maybe it happened somewhere back there on the road to recovery, and I’m now an adolescent?
Today I’m working on the last piece of my series on The Shape of Forgiveness. I can scarcely believe I’ve lived to see this day. Much less write about it.
This week I’ve recalled seemingly random circumstances in the last 30 years of my life. I’m stunned by the way pieces came together. People, programs, books, articles, blog posts, conversations, life circumstances and more. They reinforced each other and kept me, inch by inch, moving in a direction, one trembling step of faith at a time.
Am I there yet? It doesn’t matter. Though the process is demanding, the payoff makes it all worthwhile. I’d rather write and rewrite my Grown Up Girl Rules than keep Daddy’s Good Girl Rules any day.
I think about you out there, on the other side of whatever I’ve posted. You’ve been my public audience at each step. The twists and turns of life will continue, as will my healing. Today I celebrate where I am right now. And you, my dear readers.
Have a lovely Sabbath!
Elouise♥
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 8 April 2017
Response to WordPress Daily Prompt: Heal
I can relate, I found my healing through Christ with going through childhood trauma and abuse.
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Hi, JL. Thanks for reading and commenting. I’m so happy you could relate! 🙂
Elouise
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You too, have a lovely Sabbath
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Thank you
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They … kept me, inch by inch, moving in a direction, one trembling step of faith at a time.
I’m glad to hear that. Good for you.
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Thanks, Waldo. You’re a good man and a wonderful uncle.
Elouise 💜
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Barbara Derickson RN wrote a piece for Journal of Nursing years back called 4 R’s of the work of the dying Remembering, Reassesing, Reconciliation, and Reunion I am amazed to watch or hear people journey through the process. Blessings. Dave
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Thanks, Dave. It takes some of us longer than others. I’m glad you’re along for the ride! 😊
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It’s never too late to learn, grow and be set free to soar ❤
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Never. Some of us require extra time to get it, but when we do…watch out below! 🙂
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beautifully written!
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Thank you, Margaret!
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Describing the unspeakable
Welcoming the unbearable
Embracing the unimaginable
Sounds like a pretty good description of yours truly 🙂
(Starting to catch up on my fellow bloggers; haven’t been feeling the best of late)
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Then I’m especially grateful you stopped by. 💜🌹😊
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is that because I’m unspeakable, unbearable, unimaginable ? 😀
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Uh….how about because I missed you? Is that unspeakable, unbearable, unimaginable? 🙂 I was also wondering about your health. Not worrying, just wondering. I will admit, however, that within my circle of friends past and present, you definitely stand out as at least unimaginable. In a good way, that is. Definitely not unbearable (LordBeariOfBow), or unspeakable! 🙂 Hoping you had a good day!
Elouise
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Thank you says me blushing, and yes, I do do that!
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