Besotted with Strangers?
by Elouise
Wandering from our roots
We forget the manner of our lives
Those who took us in
When we were strangers
To ourselves and others
We drown in a wilderness
Of our calculated making
Locking doors and barring windows
Buying and carrying weapons
Determined to remain standing
Waves of anger and cries for mercy
Go unheeded in this dry land
Now inundated with people
Desperate for affirmation
A threat to our ways of life
I wonder. Is it time to become besotted with Strangers?
Perhaps we could begin with the Strangers we’ve become to ourselves and others. We might even use Strangerhood as the defining description of our ‘neighborhoods’ including towns, governing bodies, reservations, prisons, churches, schools, businesses, families and cities.
A childhood Christmas carol came to mind this morning. It celebrates a dear little stranger born in a manger. The Christ child. Helpless, unknown, without rank or title, an at-risk baby, poor in wealth and status.
At every turn he welcomed and received strangers into his life. Including religious leaders who often sought to entrap him, officials and citizens who criminalized him, and his motley crew of fearful disciples who abandoned him at the end.
We aren’t the Christ child. We can, however, ask for grace and courage to reflect the truth of his life. Not for our own health and wealth, but because it offers a way to become neighbors to ourselves and others. Especially those we now see as strangers in ‘our’ land, or strangers to ‘our’ way of life or beliefs or political alignments.
Every human disaster is a reminder that we need each other. Especially those others who threaten or disrupt our tidy ways of seeing ourselves and them.
Your thoughts and comments are most welcome. Thanks for listening!
Elouise ♥
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 30 August 2017
Response to WordPress Daily Prompt: Enamored
Striking poem, thanks!
The Sisters at the Orthodox monastery across from our church have taught me about how they bow to everyone, recognizing the Imageo Deo in each person.
I believe one key element of salvation is living into our connectedness.
Natalie and I ran into a couple who were visiting our town and after a while we ended up having dinner together and will be visiting them later this fall for dinner in Salt Lake City. Small miracles of life and connection.
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Hi David. You’re welcome. And thanks for commenting on your experience!
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Absolutely! My problem is, though, that I’m sometimes nice to strangers and horrible to those I know. Less these days, but I still tend to take people I know well a teensy bit for granted, if you know what I mean. ((xxx))
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It would be a great blessing today, in the USA, if we could find the courage to be nice to strangers–especially if they don’t look, sound, dress or act the way we do or the way we think they should. And yes, unfortunately, I totally understand your comment about taking for granted those we know well. I’d also say it’s most common with those who are closest to us. Just speaking for myself, of course! 🙂
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great post E, gave me a lot of thought. I like making a game of turning strangers into friends and acquaintances….being nice and kind and at the end of the day, hoping they feel good inside about the connection and pay it forward ❤ I know, I'm quite the optimist that way 🙂
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You have a great gift for this, and I’m certain it gets paid forward! 🙂 There are so many lonely people who get treated as though they’re invisible, and not worth getting to know. We could all use a dose of optimism joined with courage! To give it away, and to receive it. Happy Friday!
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And happy Saturday now my friend😊💜🙏🏻
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