Early Marriage | Part 25

by Elouise

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Through the Looking-Glass, Cambridge 1969

I’ve been dreading this post. That’s partly because I’m looking back at old photos from 1965 to 1969. Not wanting to leave them or their memories behind. So I’ve decided this won’t be the last Early Marriage post. It will be the next-to-the last, with a few more photos!  

Early marriage and motherhood were magical. Yes, there were unexpected, often distressing ups and downs. Yet I was surrounded by people I trusted, and felt reasonably capable of being a mother without becoming overwhelmed.  

Not that everyone and everything was perfect. It wasn’t. Still, I was glad to be married, redirecting my energy toward at least part of my new family of choice. I was also relieved that, on the whole, I’d managed to get through all those first-time-I-ever-did-that experiences. It was like hitting the jackpot several times–once and done. 

Not that the rest of my life has been a downer. It hasn’t been. In fact, sometimes it had more drama and excitement than I wished for. But for me, getting through all those first things was an accomplishment in itself. It gave me confidence that we would be able to do this marriage and parenthood thing together–D and I. 

I wish I could report that everything we worked on in our relationship was successful. I cannot. Between us, we carried a lot of unfinished business when we moved on to the next chapter of our life together. But that’s for another post and the next series. 

For this post, I’ve chosen several old photos I especially enjoy. They convey hope for the future, beginning with the photo of our son at the top of this post. They aren’t picture perfect. They do, however, capture the beauty, tenderness and craziness of life during early marriage. 

First, a couple of shots taken in and around Boston. No other city has offered us views of autumn wealth such as these.

1966 Jun Bird CastleB

Upscale Bird Castle in Cambridge, price unlisted

1966 Nov Pick a Pumpkin

Pick a pumpkin–any pumpkin! Cambridge 1966

1966 Nov Fall in Cambridge MA2

Fall in November, Cambridge 1966

1966 Nov Yes its fallB

Fall leaves along a road near Cambridge, Nov 1966

Finally, several photos that show our ability to have fun and fly by the seat of our pants!

1967 Sep David in the stocksB

D in the Stocks! Somewhere near Cambridge, 1967

1969 Jun Scott and David Picnic 9.5 months

Out for a day at the park, Cambridge 1968

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A little incentive goes a long way, or Spider Walk 1968. Note the vaccination!

1969 Jun Scott taking off walking

Taking off for a first walk! Fall/Winter 1968-69

1969 Jun Scott Trip to Beach

Trip to the beach with our favorite son and beach towels – 1969/69

Bidding you all a fond farewell for now!

Elouise

© Elouise Renich Fraser, 22 July 2015
Photo credit: Elouise (two pictures of D, and trip to the beach); DAFraser (all others)