Thank you, Anita Hill
I’m reposting this in honor of women who stand up to power today,
and in light of news about the Harvey Weinstein case.
In October 1991 I listened to your courageous testimony about Clarence Thomas. Your words took me back to my first boss. It was 1960. I’d just graduated from high school and was now a clerk in a bankruptcy court. We called the boss ‘Judge,’ though he was actually a referee in bankruptcy. He’d held this governmental appointment for years. He was about 60 years old; I was 16.
By 1991 I’d told only my husband the truth about my first boss. From the beginning, the Judge was on a mission to take me down a notch or two by way of sexual innuendo and outright inappropriate behavior toward me. He knew I was under-age, that my father was an ordained minister, and that I was a Christian. He said he was a Christian, too, and reminded me from time to time of his church membership.
I didn’t know what hit me. I got through three summers plus one full year, thanks to the friendship of other women working in the office, and the kindness of a few male attorneys who knew the Judge and witnessed some of his behavior toward me.
Back then the term ‘sexual harassment’ hadn’t been invented, or connected to Abuse of Power as an issue in the workplace. In addition, my childhood home where I still lived didn’t offer a safe place to talk about anything related to sex.
Flash forward to October 1991, and your testimony before the Senate Committee. I owe you a huge debt of gratitude for at least two things.
- First, your personal account was the first I’d ever heard from a professional woman talking about repeated sexual innuendo and inappropriate behavior in the work place.
- Second, your courage gave me courage to begin talking about this without fear or shame.
I’m sad this happened to you. I’m sad things happened to me. I’m sad things like this still happen every day to others.
Am I angry? Yes, I am. Angry that even in today’s reports from powerful women about powerful men, we’re still using the language of “if this is true.” Which conveniently overlooks the power imbalance that was in place when the alleged behavior happened. To say nothing of optics and the appearance of evil that seems now to be embraced, not avoided. Embraced, and laughed at in a zillion cartoonish ways.
We are not the world’s latest sleazy entertainment opportunity. We are women with every right to stand up and tell the truth about what happened and didn’t happen to us. And why it must stop now if we’re ever to be Great. Not again, but for the first time ever.
May God grant us serenity to accept what we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the difference.
Thank you for showing me how this is done. Not just then, but throughout your professional career.
Elouise Renich Fraser
For a 2016 PBS News Hour video discussion between Gwen Ifill and Anita Hill, click here. It’s outstanding.
©Elouise Renich Fraser, 13 November 2017, reposted 25 February 2020
Photo found at gq.com
I grew up at the same time as you, and to my continuing shame, I knew what was happening but I was too young, too immature and too frightened to stand up. And inasmuch as that was the case then I must plead guilty of being part of the problem.
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Your comment didn’t show up yesterday on my Ipad, and I just saw it several minutes ago. I grew up in the stiff upper lip culture of the deep South. There was an unspoken agreement that this wasn’t all that bad. So get over it. On the other hand, getting pregnant was a different matter–definitely the fault of the young lady. Lots of us believed (because we were often told) that we were responsible for male behavior. So if we didn’t get treated properly, we were to blame. I think it took Anita Hill to break the ice of silence (women’s silence) here in the USA. It’s still a huge problem over here. Even though we have men on our side, this kind of behavior continues unabated.
(Your comment still isn’t showing up; I think WordPress is having a had hair day or two.)
My comment and your comment both appeared on my desktop.
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Good! I’m still seeing it only on the post itself.