What we need to hear
by Elouise
Maybe I’m the only one. The only white PTSD survivor who didn’t get it. Do I feel humiliated by this? No. Chagrined? Yes. Yet above all, I’m challenged to find out more.
Here’s what I didn’t and still don’t get.
I know this is hard for many enlightened and well-meaning Christians to hear, but here’s the truth: If you are white, you have no clue as to the PTSD-like realities black people in this country face every single day. —James Ellis III
It’s one thing to accept this as information. On the other hand, are we willing to let this sink into our understanding of the way things play out here in the USA? Not just in public places, but in white (often lightly colored) churches?
The quote above challenges me to learn more about “PTSD-like realities” black people face daily here in the USA. The easiest connection (for me) is to think about post-Viet Nam War veterans with PTSD who showed up in my theology classes in the 1980s. Yet even that isn’t the same as what’s happening today on our streets. Neither is my own history with childhood PTSD.
One quote doesn’t explain everything. But that isn’t James Ellis III’s point. His point is that we white, so-called “enlightened and well-meaning Christians” have a hard time hearing and accepting truth about Black Lives.
How tragic if we fail. Not because we didn’t try, but because we don’t like hearing bad or disturbing news about ourselves. It’s easier to push it off on the government, or ‘those white people’ over there, or even on Black citizens themselves.
James Ellis III’s article, from which the quote above comes, was first published in May 2020. Read it here, if you dare. It’s titled “A Lowdown, Dirty Shame: Ahmaud Arbrey’s Murder and the Unrenounced Racism of White Christians.”
Praying we’ll find our way out of this mess. Not the mess created by our government, but the mess we’ve created for ourselves.
Elouise♥
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 9 July 2020
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So good. Thanks for sharing.
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Hi, ch! It’s so good to hear from you. Thanks for the comment. I pray you’re doing well, and wish we cousins lived closer to each other! 🙂
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all who believe in God have suffered for their faith, amen
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Indeed. A dangerous path to take/follow.
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Thank you for, as always, sharing the truth. I am trying to listen.
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I find listening one of the most difficult disciplines of all. Thanks, Marilyn.
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Thank you for your words, Elouise. James is a personal friend and an amazing minister of the Gospel.
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You’re welcome, Trisha. And thanks for the good word about James Ellis!
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Thank you for the link to Rev. Ellis’ sermon. It is well worth reading. And thank you for your truthful words, as always!
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You’re welcome, Martha! Thanks for the recommendation and your kind words. For something this old, it seems I’m just waking up. Not to the reality of racism, but to what it looks like. Especially in me.
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One of the difficulties is that if we really did understand then we would have to do something to change our own lives. And the worst thing we do is to say that we have ‘Empathy’ because then we feel that we have done something and don’t need to do anything more. This is one of your best posts Elouise.
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Hi, John. Yes indeed, we come with so many ways of thinking we’ve ‘done the deed’! Thanks for your most kind comment at the end. Sometimes I feel like I’m finally ready to begin my life! Thanks for being part of my blogging journey since the beginning. 🙂
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You are very welcome Elouise, very welcome
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