What it looks like to be brave
This is my first attempt to clarify what it looks like for me to be brave today.
Being brave means
- Not second-guessing myself or my language.
- Not wondering whether people will like or believe what I say or write.
Given my age and health, bravery is chiefly about spoken and written speech.
- How willing am I to be blunt, no matter who is listening/reading?
- How willing am I to become a learner, not just by reading books, but by listening to what others say about me as a white citizen of the USA?
Signs I’m being brave:
- Giving up
morerules for good white girls and women, enforced directly and indirectly since the day I was born
- Engaging in conversation or not, as I choose
- Taking care of myself physically, emotionally and spiritually
- Speaking my mind and engaging in conversations that matter
- Feeling both clear and out of control
Being brave isn’t measured by
- What my father would say or think
- What my church friends, pastor, or former colleagues and students would say or think
- What my readers think about what I write
So what’s at stake?
- It isn’t whether we can get along.
- It’s whether white citizens of the USA are willing to look into our long history of racism without making excuses or trying to explain things away.
- It’s also whether churches and religious institutions will take racism seriously, no matter whether they supported it directly or indirectly.
It’s also about
- What I do or write in response to what I’m learning and seeing daily.
- Being clear about what I need to hear about from the pulpit regarding racism.
In the final analysis, the goal isn’t to change other people. It’s to change me.
Thanks for visiting, reading, and commenting if you’d like!
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 20 October 2020
Quotation found at pinterest.com