In praise of meadows
by Elouise
This morning D and I drove out to Longwood Gardens for a visit. Imagine great weather, wonderful breezes, and puffy white clouds floating beneath a bright blue sky.
D is downloading his photos even as I write this. So yes, you’ll get to see some awesome photos later. In the meantime, here’s one of my early poems, written in 2015 after a visit to Longwood’s still new Meadow Garden. D took the photo above during a Meadow visit in August 2014.
By 2015 I’d been retired from the seminary for several years, and had been blogging since late December 2013. I didn’t have much self-confidence, and felt like an odd ball without a home.
Looking at photos taken in Longwood’s Meadow Garden gave me the idea for this poem. For me, the meadow is the highlight of Longwood Gardens. Not the meticulously planted, pruned and displayed wonders of an estate garden, but the wild, unpredictable beauty of a large meadow inhabited by birds, bees, butterflies and other small creatures.
Here’s the poem–unchanged from its first debut.
Is there something to be said
for wild, lightly cultivated gardens—like meadows?
Not showcases of stunning flowers and cultivated flower walks,
But life-giving, naked, raw beauty—
able to withstand harsh weather with grace—
Welcoming visitors of all kinds.
I want to be a meadow garden
With paths for thoughtful feet
Space for tears and laughter
Occasional butterflies and birds,
Spiders, moths, and ‘lesser’ life forms.
Perhaps the wildness of my internal life
Wants to be honored, named and lightly cultivated?
Recovery isn’t about taming life.
It’s about reclaiming it—
The semi-wild meadow
that hears and sees music 24/7.
That’s what I want to be. Living life
naked, lightly cultivated and beautiful.
Thanks for stopping by!
Elouise♥
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 16 June 2021 (poem first published in March 2015)
Photo taken by DAFraser, Longwood Meadow Garden, August 2014
9 more wks. of treatment before they try a knee revision. (Mid to end of August) No promises that I’Il come out with a knee revision. Could be “stabilized” in a brace hip to ankle. My leg was ravaged by that almost unkillable bacteria that only goes after and grows on artificial body parts. I’m not going to make it. If living I”ll be insane.
Lorraine
On Wed, Jun 16, 2021 at 5:07 PM Telling the Truth wrote:
> Elouise posted: ” This morning D and I drove out to Longwood Gardens for a > visit. Imagine great weather, wonderful breezes, and puffy white clouds > floating beneath a bright blue sky. D is downloading his photos even as I > write this. So yes, you’ll get to see some aw” >
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Hi, Lorraine. I’m grateful for the update on your health. I’m not happy to hear what they’re thinking about next, and pray your worst fears will NOT be realized. In the meantime, keep me updated. I pray today’s post will give you a bit of peace or even hope about your situation. If I could, I would send you a meadow garden. The kind that comes to you. Not the kind you have to travel to see.
Elouise
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I am enjoying the wild flowers all over in northern Mn. Our son in law has about 280 acres and its just full of flowers, wild ferns, bears, deer, small pond, tons of all kinds of trees, it’s a joy to ride back through some of the trails in those acreage. I have two vases of wild flowers sitting in my place now, five different kinds of flowers, all growing wild. The weather is beautiful here right now. Looking forward to the pictures.
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Hi, Betty. This sounds absolutely fabulous! Thanks for sharing the ‘view’ from your corner of the world. 🙂
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And in the years since you have been blogging I sense that you have successfully cultivated that “wildness of your internal life”. Do you feel that?
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Such a good question, Gwen. I’d say I’m leaning toward a finish line, not there yet, but close enough that I have no desire to return to my ‘tame woman’ years. Most of it has been about writing and speaking/teaching–for me, probably the most public things I’ve done in my life. Age helps as well. There’s no turning back, and no doubt that it’s now or never! Not just when I write, but in my interactions with family and friends. In addition, I’ve had a gifted therapist for decades who has faithfully listened to me and questioned me. I have to credit her wisdom as part of the wild part of me! It’s what I feared most all my life–being ‘too _______ ” (fill in the blank). My so-called safe mode was to be smart, keep my mouth closed unless absolutely necessary, and avoid being sassy or confrontational. Dependable. That was what I was and still am, though in a different way.
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Glad my question provoked you to mull over that. Keeping your mouth closed is a smart thing to do in certain situations – one I’ve never learned.
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What’s not to like? It sounds just like you, which I find quite wonderful. 🙂
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Beautiful, profound, heart-felt, relatable poem, SweetElouise!
You, and your words, ARE a beautiful meadow garden in my life! I visit here and I leave lighter, wiser, encouraged, more serene, and smiling. 🙂
Thank you!
(((HUGS))) ❤
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Oh, Carolyn! You’re so welcome, and thank you for your most kind words. I’m so happy you related to the poem. 🙂
Elouise
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Sweet poem, Elouise. I know how you feel about having a meadow garden. I tried on a small patch but didn’t have much luck.
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Thanks, Don. When I pay attention to how much it takes to make a “home-made” meadow work, I’m astonished. Even though Longwood’s meadow is huge, it still needs regular upkeep and burn-off of rotating patches from time to time.
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