Mary Oliver | Three Poems for 2023
by Elouise
How are we doing today? Not just as individuals, but as citizens in a world screaming with pain. Mary Oliver’s three short poems below, one after another, ask us to turn our attention inward. Whether we like it or not, we’re in this together. My brief comments follow.
The Morning Paper
Read one newspaper daily (the morning edition
is the best
for by evening you know that you at least
have lived through another day)
and let the disasters, the unbelievable
yet approved decisions,
soak in.
I don’t need to name the countries,
ours among them.
What keeps us from falling down, our faces
to the ground, ashamed, ashamed?
~~~
The Poet Compares Human Nature
To The Ocean From Which We Came
The sea can do craziness, it can do smooth,
it can lie down like silk breathing
or toss havoc shoreward; it can give
gifts or withhold all; it can rise, ebb, froth
like an incoming frenzy of fountains, or it can
sweet-talk entirely. As I can too,
and so, no doubt, can you, and you.
~~~
On Traveling To Beautiful Places
Every day I’m still looking for God
and I’m still finding him everywhere,
in the dust, in the flowerbeds.
Certainly in the oceans,
in the islands that lay in the distance
continents of ice, countries of sand
each with its own set of creatures
and God, by whatever name.
How perfect to be aboard a ship with
maybe a hundred years still in my pocket.
But it’s late, for all of us,
and in truth the only ship there is
is the ship we are all on
burning the world as we go.
~~~
Published by Penguin Books in A Thousand Mornings/Mary Oliver, pp. 65-69
Copyright © 2012 by NW Orchard LL.C
I love poems about beauty and truth. I’m not sure, however, how to mix beauty and truth when we seem to be falling apart. Ignoring what can’t be ignored. Making ‘exceptions’ for those who seem to hold the most power of any kind.
Mary Oliver invites and even dares us to see the world as it is. Not the world as we wish it were, or the world we think we can ignore. She also invites us to repent. To turn around. To see and live whatever truth we can with at least one other person. One day, one problem, one fleeting moment at a time, regardless of what others may think about us.
Praying we’ll find renewed life with each other in the coming year, regardless of our country, religion, politics, gender, or age. And . . . I wish each of you a truly happy new year in which you find courage you never thought possible.
Elouise♥
© Elouise Renich Fraser, 30 December 2022
Photo found at phys.org/news/2022-23
I’ve been reading Letter from America by Heather Cox Richardson daily. She combines American history with current events. I can understand why things appear so bleak. But we can only go forward, with hope, and faith.
Have a happy New Year. I’m just off to party, party. Well, I’ll do my best 🙂
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Hi, Gwen! I hope you’re having a ball right now! A Happy New Year ball, that is. And yes! The only way to go forward is “with hope, and faith.” I hope your New Year brings tons of unexpected blessings, and wonderful surprises! 🙂
Elouise
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You know I love Mary Oliver! And these poems are important, timely and wonderful.
Happy New Year, Elouise! Wishing you love, laughter, joy, better health…and, yes, courage.
(((HUGS))) 🥳🎇🎉❤️
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Courage…just what I need right now! It’s so easy to get stuck in going-nowhere ruts. Thanks for your upbeat reminder that we don’t know what wonderful surprises are just around the corner. 🙂 Thanks, too, for the mention of courage. Definitely a necessity in today’s world. I pray your New Year will be equally wonderful, right from the beginning. 🙂
Hugs and best wishes right back to you. 🙂
Elouise
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(((HUGS)))
🥳❤️🎇🎉❤️🥳
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Thanks for sharing the poems! The third one was my favorite.
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Oh…I love the third one, also. The end is quite unexpected. Just what we need, perhaps, to jolt us into reality? I hope your new year brings you joy, and the guts to stand up and speak out when others wish you would sit down and shut up! 🙂
Elouise
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Oh Elouise, I’ve been feeling down for awhile, like I can’t relate to anyone, or they can’t relate to me. And I’ve been lonely. I do speak up, but no matter what I say, I feel dismissed, or others argue against what I’m saying, even if what I’m saying helps them. Well, curiously enough, in my loneliness I took a personality test, and it revealed I have a rare personality–guess that’s why I’ve been lonely. But it hit the nail on the head describing me. I hate injustice and I don’t like small talk. And I love educating people; that’s what I call my sharing with others when I’ve learned something interesting, or an injustice, or anything that can make lives better. But I’ve found that people where I live are drugged or drunk, sleepy, distracted, and/or ignorant. And most of the time those conditions are caused by something I’m trying desperately to tell them about; however they choose to remain in their situation almost gleefully as they ignore me or argue.
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Dear KS,
What a challenge this must be for you. I don’t know what your personality turned out to be. I can, however, empathize with you to some degree. I also have an unusual personality profile–given the fact that I’ve been an academic and professor/dean. Too often, we make assumptions based on limited knowledge. And yes, often we don’t want to hear things that challenge us. The issues you name (injustice, small talk, and personal choices that we don’t want to give up) are difficult to talk about, especially in the environment we live in these days. Do you journal? That can be a wonderful way of talking with yourself about yourself, and (sometimes) a way of seeing and listening to other options you may not have tried. The other thing you might do is look for at least one person you can trust to listen to you, give you feedback, and share the truth about life as they know it. We do need each other….which you so clearly say. I pray that 2023 will bring you at least one person you can trust to listen to you and to share their own thoughts. We live in an incredibly lonely world these days.
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